My Boyfriend (25M) Left Me (23F) Alone A Day After My Dog Died

2021.10.24 22:13 river_song233 My Boyfriend (25M) Left Me (23F) Alone A Day After My Dog Died

So, some context, Jobi was my family's dog for several years. I got separated from him when I went to college, but once I graduated they offered to give him to me, because we had a special bond. He moved in with my boyfriend and I in July of 2020. In March of 2021, we received devastating news that he had Lyme disease and that, in a very rare and often fatal side effect, it was attacking his kidneys. The damage to his kidneys was irreversible and terminal.
Dogs don't often display any symptoms of kidney failure until its final stage, so we enjoyed some very happy and fulfilling months with him. My bf and dog bonded almost instantly, and, of course, my dog and I were extremely close and had grown up together. He took a very sudden and rapid turn for the worst last week and passed in the very early hours of October 23, 2021. Both my boyfriend and I were devastated. I mostly stayed in bed and cried on the 23rd and we both called in to work.
I was just barely able to get up and shower on the 24th and when I came out of the bathroom, I was shocked to see my boyfriend in his work uniform. He informed me wanted to go back to work and left, without so much as asking if I was ok being alone for the day. He texted me once during the day to ask if I had eaten, other than that there was no communication, he works at a restaurant and his shift was 12-close, so it was the entire day I was alone. I felt very crushed, but not surprised. His response to any kind of emotion or pain that I show is always to run away. I know that he is hurting, too, but I felt that he owed it to Jobi and I to take time off to grieve and to be there for me. I had to make plans alone to arrange my dog's cremation, paw print keepsakes, and to write his obituary today, which I had wanted my bf to be there for.
I am just curious what your significant others would have done in the situation. He was not under any pressure and did not have any need to go into work so soon after a loss. He has not really spoken to or tried to comfort me at all. On the 23rd he was able to eat lunch and dinner and spent a lot of time on his phone, even chuckling at his videos and comics. Even if he is taking the loss better than me, he knows what Jobi meant to me and how hard I am grieving and it feels very strange for him to not be empathetic to that. I am not expecting him to put his life on hold, but to leave me alone the entire day after my dog died and as I was struggling to cope just feels very wrong.
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Hi all, my wife and I are planning to buy a home and I'm trying to think strategically for the long term.
Info: single family homes are 1.4M+ in my area. We plan on starting a development company as well (my wife has 8+ years in construction management and development). We'll be building and renovating, flipping houses. We also plan on holding rentals. We currently make 300k combined, some years more. We plan on having kids in 3-4 years.
Here's the 2 scenerios I have in my head.
1)We buy a SFH for 1.4-1.5M. Rent out the basement. I've ran the numbers and we'll end up paying 1-1.5k out of pocket for the mortgage. However, this scenario will make it harder for us to acquire our second property since getting a second mortgage is difficult. We'll also have 300k tied up in equity since 20% dp is required for properties $1M+ in my country (Canada).
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2) we can buy a 2.5/3 bdrm condo for 750-800k. That will basically cut our DP in half to 150-160k. The other ~150k can go towards a rental condo or cut the time to save up for our next project to 1-1.5years.
I'm not worried about mortgage payments, strata, or anything like that. We have more than enough to cover those types of costs.
I guess what I'm trying to wrap my head around is how to optimize our cash so we can buy a primary residence AND be able aquire real estate for our projects. We will have partner investors, family and friends but they won't be putting in as much as us.
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If you’re feeling lost and wrestling with thoughts about your beloved’s death, I’d recommend this movie, if for no other reason than to feel less alone.
At one point, the mother whispers to the universe, “when did my heart first find you?” Movies can be art and true art touches your soul in a way that one cannot put into words. This movie does that with grief. Please watch it if you have the chance.
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