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29(m) my lifestory - First time poster

2022.01.26 22:49 stargazer_92 29(m) my lifestory - First time poster

Stumbled upon this sub, and felt like fuckit I've had some things for years now I've had noone to share it with, I'm 29 (M) my life isn't super special but thought I'd share and maby something good can come out of it, I'm was just a regular dude, popular in school didn't study at all, my dad had a restaurant that I basically grew up in, anyway my dad decided to try our luck in USA, we moved bought a house sold the restaurant in Sweden and really gave it a go, but everything went sideways, and we decided to move back, with most our savings gone my dad fought to get the restaurant back, made some pretty shitty deals to do so, made some deals with his old friend thats a criminal, Anyway we got it back and I started working and for years i was pretty happy, working every day 8 hours, with my father we had a great bond, he was Italian and an old school one so was hard to reach him but I know he was proud of me, years pass and alot of things happen, we opened more restaurants and worked really hard, we had great success, but the deal he made to get the first place back came back to bite him, he had been doing some bad things behind my back like selling staked In our company's having part owners without my knowledge, so in the end he just gave it away, and we just had the money in our pockets, but with all that behind us (so I thought) we decided to open a restaurant in a neighbouring town, working every day 13 hours to get it going, just me and my dad, after a while i got really burnt out, and started thinking is this all for me? Same walls, same jokes from customers, same drink, same meal, and I started to get really unhappy about where I was, see with all the success we had, my dad had gone and done a deal with the suppliers to get a loan for the money to buy the new restaurant, with this deal we had to buy supplies from these people, and they upped the price for us double what other people bought for, for 3 years we battled, but we started arguing and I saw my father started getting stressed out, sleeping on the sacks of flower for the bread, he was nearly 60, working 13 hours a day, just me and him making 2000usd a day in food, it was really busy, one day this guy comes in and I overhear him saying **** is coming out from jail soon, (the guy he made the bad deals with) then I see the look in my father's eyes he was worried, anyway I talked to my father cause I was dead, I wanted something els for my life so we decided to sell the place, he was worried for me that i had to fend for myself without education, I told him I'd be fine and I can start studying, we sold the place and I took one year off, I took 25% off the sale the rest I wanted my dad to have, a couple week later I hear that the guy my father was worried about was out, (this guy was pretty hard-core) I started getting calls from people that knew my father and wanted to get in touch with him, so I visited my father told him about this he got pretty upset, I didn't have a clue about anything, 2 weeks pass and my father calls to tell me he loves me, and that was the last I heard from him, 4 days after the call I got called up my the IRS, apparently the business hadn't shown any papers on how much money we where making and since I was the owner off the company i got taxed 800.000 (Sek) for it, since the papers where gone and all hardware that tracks it, at this point I'm stressing hard, I start doing drugs, I get calls in the middle of the night and they just hang up, after a while I get contacted by the police asking me question but nothing comes out of it, one day I had a note stuck in my door with a knife saying my dad owes 1m, I brush it off trying not to think about it, meanwhile my drugabuse gets worse and worse, at some points I have no food and don't know where to stay, 1 year pass and no word from my father but this criminal calls me up everyday, asking the same questions : where is your father, I say the same thing " I don't know but even if I did I wouldn't tell you, he's my father" they then shift to start threatening my family telling me if I don't say where he is my family will pay the price, so one night I loose my shit, get a gun and call him up saying i wanna talk, proceed to get into a car with two pretty massive bald dudes, drive me to an apartment I go in and i see him, that fucking guy who has been threatening me for over a year, I can't contain myself, I go in and points the gun at his face and tell him the next time you treathen anyone in my family, I will be back and there will be no next time for you, I've lost everything so I don't care anymore, TRY ME. I change number and move town for a couple months after that, I was scared of the retaliation, but nothing happened, all this time I've had no friends to talk to about any of this or to help me out, also didn't wanna involve my family, didn't want them getting into trouble, so this I kinda the first time I'm sharing. My drug abuse started getting worse and I was taking most things, I was so angry my father had left me in debt, I was just lost didn't know what to do with my life, finally one summer I applied for a job at a restaurant, it was my father's childhood friend who was the boss, and I got the job, started slowly getting off the drugs and started working again, 400+hours every month for 4 months every summer, the rest of the time of the year I was just roaming selling drugs trying to get by, alot of crazy shit happend those years, now I'm 29 30 in 4 days, I started working with my father when I was 16, now here I am drug free, studying and have a great girlfriend living a calm and peaceful life, I'm still heartbroken about my father but I've learned to think about the good parts, I don't think he wanted me to fall into debt, I don't think he wanted to not be around me, I think and hope he's alive and out there, and if by any chance your reading this dad I forgive you and love you, you made me the man I am today and I'm happy and proud of myself.
So this is the first time I'm sharing this, and if anyone reads this whole thing, I probably missed alot of things it's hard to explain your life, but it was nice getting this off my chest, can't say I didn't shed a tear going over this again. Just wanted to share and where ever you are in life things get better, if you want them to ❤ love Tony (29) M
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2022.01.26 22:49 digistarkon For any L4 AMs that have been promoted to L5 - 1) what was your raise? and 2) how much additional stock did you get?

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2022.01.26 22:49 Reibusu [IIL] Rui Da Silva -Touch Me [WEWIL]? Moody, dark, not cheesy late 90s early 00s House.

I love her vocals on the track, it's such a great track for being melancholic, thoughtful and moody to. Kosheen's Hide U, Deep Dish's Say Hello and Trentemoller's Moan are also good examples to give you an idea. But I need more!
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2022.01.26 22:49 ashestodust97 9635 2268 7363 REGICE on me trying to add 10

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2022.01.26 22:49 Charming-Act-7896 Just wanted to share my most fav one!!

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2022.01.26 22:49 Fantastic_Audience98 Can someone explain why there’s so much hate on Vska’s? (Before y’all got crazy in me I’m looking at import parts kits for an actual build)

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2022.01.26 22:49 messymindful Ideas for unfinished projects?

Hi, so I have a problem where I pick up hobbies (often expensive ones oops) and get really into them, but then loose interest suddenly. So I have a big unfinished room box and I’ve been considering getting rid of all of miniature stuff but I don’t know what I could do with it. I don’t want to just throw it out because I spent a lot on materials but I don’t think I have it in me to finish it.
Any ideas? I already put down flooring, wallpaper, baseboards, and made a little jut out wall for the fireplace and glued it down so I probably can’t sell that part.
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2022.01.26 22:49 ExcellentSmith More of Don Tolman and his opinions on extended fasting for healing

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2022.01.26 22:49 vloneclone_ New Card

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2022.01.26 22:49 Jsand117 Unsure how to proceed with 3rd stimulus issue

Hi everyone, hoping you can assist. We had a child in august 2021 so according to what I read we should be eligible for $1400 stimulus for her.
However, the issue is that in our 2021 taxes we are not claiming one of our children anymore(he moved out in early 2021).
It asks how much we received in stimulus which was $5600, 2 adults and 2 dependents at the time which matches what it should have been according to TurboTax. Since it matches it doesn’t let me claim the recovery rebate. It looks like its not taking into account the removal of a dependent and addition of a new dependent.
How do I navigate this to get the $1400 for my newborn?
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2022.01.26 22:49 PopDiddilyBop How to take friendships to a higher level?

I 21f just got out of a toxic friend group situation. Long story short I was scapegoated and had to cut ties with several people. It was very traumatizing for me.
It’s been four months, I’m back at school. I have very little people I still talk and hang out with. And I know the best way to recover from my ordeal is to find a new community to be apart of. But I was slow to make friends before, and I’m even more timid now. I have some acquaintances at clubs I go to, but I’ve never been able to make it into a friendship. So how do I strengthen my ties with people? I desperately want to have that social life again. But I’m damaged and alone.
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Will take 10
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2022.01.26 22:49 gEnTe_CaLmA_vIaJaNtE Qual o foco do sub/movimento?

Estava vendo o caos que aconteceu no /antiwork e, pra ser sincero, não entendi muito bem o foco do "movimento" (aspas apenas porque não sei se essa é a melhor definição).
No caso desse sub em específico, eu vejo que há muitos desabafos e relatos de insatisfação com o chefe, trabalho, colegas, etc. Gostaria de saber quais os motivos que fizeram vocês frequentaram o sub, bem como a visão que vocês têm do tema.
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2022.01.26 22:49 cmplxgal Medical Moment: How your circadian rhythm could affect COVID test results

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2022.01.26 22:49 Head-Committee7067 Anyone dropped a course before?

so I dropped a course on my student account through the add/drop course button. is there anything else I need to do or anyone I need to contact and will I be refunded automatically
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